The Power of Desire Dethroned
There is a famous couple problem that a majority of psychotherapists encounter in the exercise of their practice. This complaint, made equally by men or by women, could be summed up as follows: "I love my companion, a priori, I like making love, but I no longer have any sexual desire at all. Generally, the person asks the therapist to help him regain his sexual desire when it comes to individual therapy, or else the request will be formulated within the framework of couple therapy, and there, it is a situation where one of the two partners is waiting, and the other is at fault for not desiring. Moreover, it is to the latter that the reproaches are made. Failing To Find Your Desire So, the "offending party" feels guilty of malfunctioning, guilty of not succeeding in rediscovering his desire, and guilty of hurting the person he loves and putting his couple in danger. And for the other, who is waiting, it is also extremely difficult because he feels frustra...